When it comes to business, I keep my brand professional; I know that, from a business standpoint, I represent my employer as well as myself. While I like to keep a wall of separation between my public and private lives every wall has cracks where, what psychology calls "backstage behavior", becomes visible. Rather than patch those holes with mortar, I choose to cultivate what shows through.

A Google search will not reveal much about me (and that is by design) so here I invite you to peer through the cracks in my wall, to get to know me as a whole person - to see what family, friends, and close co-workers and colleagues get to see!

Do Not Listen to This Podcast

I have been a guest a few times on Roger Wilkerson's Do Not Listen to This Podcast show: unedited, uncensored, and unabashedly me! Roger can make me laugh out loud - and that is not an easy accomplishment. It is when I am laughing that I am at my most comfortable; if you can make me laugh, you will have found a door in my wall.


I am an occasional contributor to Roger's Cr@ppy Life Coach video series, appearing in character as "Fallur the Hot Mess". My latest contribution, still in the earliest development stages, is "Speed Talks" - humorous one-minute videos that impart knowledge that you didn't know you needed.
A buff tiger kitten protectively hugs a grey tiger kitten.
#mustlovedogs

I have a few signature hashtags, but #mustlovedogs is the one I use the most. Dogs are loyal and loving to a fault; how you treat them tells the world about your character. 

(Sidebar: I realize that #musttreatdogswithrespect is a more accurate tag, but it lacks the brevity and memorable branding of #mustlovedogs).

Ironically, I only own cats: a grey tabby ("Tabbie") who knows, without a doubt, that she is the center of the universe, and her littermate, a buff tiger ("Leo") who thinks he is a Labrador retriever...and Tabbie's Samwise Gamgee.


"You can't have a little grace; you either have grace or you don't."

Congrats if you recognized the Seinfeld quote that is the headline!

I am frequently told that I am the picture of sophistication and grace; I have enough self-awareness not to believe the hype. I do, however, come from a long line of "Best Dressed" women, and I do not want to be the one to break the chain. I continue the tradition to honor my late mother, my grandmother, and my great-grandmother. 
Are you really LOLing?
I possess a very dry sense of humor, having spent my life as the straight person to my brother's comedic wit (he is truly the funniest person I have ever met).

It takes a lot to offend me; I subscribe to the philosophy of Hanlon's Razor: never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity. However, I will call you out if I think you are not being entirely truthful (left) or if your humor is dependent upon the denigration of others.

In such situations, I can say what others wish they had said. To be able to use humor to scorn bad behavior, while diffusing the situation with a minimum of drama, is one of my favorite talents.